Complimentary vs sexualisation. That's the key.
Something that's left me on cloud 9 randomly from a man was: every woman should have a shirt like that, have a great day... Over a simple button blouse I was wearing.
One towards my kid that did the same: omg those shoes are the best things I've ever seen.
Complimentary.
This! Two examples from different exchanges I had in the same dress. Both times it was a guy who approached me on the street.
1, bad: random dude says, “that dress looks hot on you, I can see the silhouette of your legs through the fabric”.
2 good: “that orange color looks so dang pretty on you! Have a nice day!”
First guy should have known where to stop, right at the comma. You could still discuss whether you like to be called hot, but it would already be a lot less creepy.
Second guy also gets it to just compliment and wish a nice day and move on.
So yeah, it's about intentions mainly, and the first guy certainly had creepy intentions.
I really dont understand you. I didn't make any question so I don't know what question did you answer directly.
I did not say i cannot find a shirt cute, I said (or meant to say) that the line between complimentary and sexualizing seems to be more between things you have and things you are. Because I agree your examples are complimentary and handsome/beautiful can be easily interpreted as sexualizing
You just came across as angry because of saying "You deserve this." I dont know what i deserve or why to be honest
Let's break it down.
Would you give the same to my 9yr Old. legit
No? Hold it in. Tell me my shirt or hair is cute. Then drop it. Said all is needed.
Call me anything based on my PHYSICAL, your a creep.
Physical is not necessarily "nice boobs!" which is obviously creepy, "nice hair/ you have beautiful eyes/ what a pretty smile", are all also physical. These are actually counter examples to my initial opinion, so I guess you can actually come across as complimentary when commenting on physical after, which is the opposite of what i was saying
If you cannot say it to a kid, cannot to a random woman.
Roll with that.
Only thing you can tell me is my body is hot or good. And your a creep. I dressed in comfy. Now I'm not. You did that. Physical isn't a complimentary thing. If you think it is, boy do I have some choice words said at me that'd changed how I dress.
You are really overreacting, i have no idea how you look and I don't care, I have not made any comment directed to you. Im not going to apologise for how you decide to misinterpret me
Edit: comment to your physical, I have obviously commented on you comments
All of mine have been physically. Never made to me personally but hypothetical.
As I learnt, never apologize for what someone says they are. Never.
End them for who they are.
In the video all of her compliments were based on physical appearance and not specific to what the people were wearing or something they did to look good.
Literally nothing she said specified anything other than general appearance.
“Handsome ass best friends”
“You’re a literal king, you look amazing”
“You literally look like an angel”
“We we’re looking for parking, but we found two beautiful women”
“Are you from GQ? Because I swear you guys are models.”
“You look so beautiful today”
And because I think these same things coming from a man would be creepy, I am therefore creepy? Get over yourself.
Some random guy saw me in my running tights and said “well aren’t those happy pants” (it was in America he wasn’t referring to my undergarments 🙃) … fecking made my day, week, month and beyond. Every time I wear them now I smile 😁🙃
You’d be surprised how many people can take a compliment specially if it’s not transactional, like you compliment someone and immediately ask for their number or social media. I do it all the time and just keep it moving!
There are other ways. One time I was checking out at a supermarket and the cashier, a heavyset older woman, was looking really miserable and tired. I made sure to look at her nametag, and when I left, I said “Thanks so much Joanna.”
She was overjoyed! She turned to her coworker with a huge smile and put her hand up to her chest. It was a nice feeling.
It only starts to become weird if you’re obviously checking them out from head to toe. Don’t cross the line between kind compliment and flirting then its fine.
I agree with you 100%. But would like to add that part of the delivery includes the social setting, location, and approach. As I've gotten older I've taken those things into consideration
I've heard people suggest before that it's less weird of you compliment something they've *chosen*, like their clothes, or their hair cut or something, rather than just their appearance
Genuine compliments don’t creep people out. Just don’t sexually comment on someone (nice ass isn’t a genuine compliment) and you will be fine. Also tone matters. Had a dude tell me he loved my skull shirt (back was huge crocheted skull). Made my whole day. I get so many creeps at the beer and wine store I work at, it was refreshing like this video. (Like the nice ass example I gave earlier or offering to take me out). Or someone who complimented my accent in Spanish (I speak English as my native language but speak in Spanish to a lot of my customers).
You would be amazed at how one compliment can change a day. I work in Hospitality and I always try and compliment somehow whether it be nails, outfit, hair, shoes or just saying you look amazing. It has taken people from having an awful day to smiles like that.
I always give and encourage others to give compliments for this reason! When I’m walking with friends and one of them says “that girls dress is so pretty” or “I really like his shoes” etc,. I say to them, tell them! Let them know! You never know who needs a little boost of confidence to get them through their day!
I use to work in hospitality and loved it. I was the same way. It really made their days especially if it didn't start off so good or something was annoying them. A compliment goes a long way sometimes. Never stop we need to uplift each other 🙌🏼
I think about this a lot.
I often hear "the difference between sweet and creepy is if she thinks you're cute" but I've known men who frequently compliment my clothes/ appearance/ whatever, I know I'm definitely not attracted to them, but they never come off creepy. Even after one of them got attacked with a hammer and had a big terrifying scar.
I can't out my finger on it but I think it's a combination of they never stared/ leered, just made normal eye contact and their tone was always light and friendly. They'd also comment on my outfit or makeup or other things I could control, not my actual body. They never likened me to any food items.
I'm sure some misunderstandings are inevitable but in general I think some men are being intentionally obtuse with "not understanding" the difference.
There's a certain type of man that thinks it is a gift to compliment you, and you become a bitch if you don't receive it gratefully enough, and they've never considered that maybe you don't want them considering anything about you in the first place
True. Yesterday I was walking down the street and a man told me I had nice hair. It was said kindly and I returned the compliment. And this happened literally right after I left the court hearing that sent my stalker to jail. Two different people, two different ways of appreciating (for lack of better word) a woman- one crazy, one kind. I can tell the difference. I’m not going to freak out on a man who compliments me in a kind way.
An older once told me I should smile more and kept waiting looking at me to smile. I walked away. This person saw me one second and had no clue I visited my grandfather who was dying of leukemia while trying to force myself to still look forward to and plan my wedding knowing my grandfather wouldn't be there. No I did not want to smile I wanted to honor how I was feeling without having a meltdown in public. He might have meant it nicely but the stare down while he smiled wasn't...uh it wasn't good.
i think a lot of women dont know the difference to be honest. most of what this woman said if a man said would be met with a different reaction. I agree its about intent, but a lot of women dont take that into consideration, it is just a man is commenting on my appearance without my invitation =unwarranted sexual attention and that is the narration that is predominant now, that a man cannot comment on a woman's looks in any way without invitation to do so. which is sad when it is different for women because it is implied that a woman can say these things and they are intended to complement, but a man says them because he is want attention or to make someone feel uncomfortable. in many situations, a man saying you look beautiful today would be classed as sexual harrasment if the woman felt uncomfortable with it regardless of the intention behind the person saying it
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And depends on society in country\\city you are living.
Even random male to random male will say "dude you hair looks good" it can be 80% that this person will think that you are gay and resposnce can be "fuck you" or he just will beat your ass or 20% just ignore you. Different town can be with different results.
I gave my boss a compliment that her hair looked nice and my other coworkers started talking shit about me lol wth🤷🏽♀️why are ppl so salty when others get compliments?
I stopped someone today as she walked by to tell her that her earrings were gorgeous. We had a lovely little chat and we both went on our way. Probably never see her again but it was nice 🙂
Hmmmmm...... I couldn't take a compliment from a complete stranger.... I'm the asshole that you would see thinking this is some condescending stranger making fun of me, so "🖕"... Idk.... No confidence, low self esteem..... Just how I am
As a female, I enjoy heckling male construction workers. They always smile or at least look pleasantly surprised to hear someone scream "shake it big boy" or "fuck yeah spread it" as they drive by
There’s an awful lot of men in the workplace who make inappropriate comments to female coworkers and they’re “joking.” It’s not a valid excuse for them and it’s not a valid excuse for her.
Yeah I'm not sure how the chuds in this thread don't understand the difference between me making an obvious joke to the group of dudes standing around waiting for their turn to work and a group men saying specific sexually explicit, graphic and threatening shit to a single woman, but fuck these feminists and our double standards lol
Making people feel good is cringe now? Or is it because it's filmed? Encouraging other people to be kind by visually showing how nice it can be is cringe?
I think you need a hug and a break from the Internet.
I love this...I try to do this.
But I also have to point out, dude on the right in the first part is wearing the same tank top as Klaus in The Umbrella Academy scene where he meets god and talks to his dad....I've been looking for it everywhere. That is all.
If this was a guy going round telling women they look like models/ are beautiful it would be met with a different attitude. Yeah its annoying to point that out, but not as annoying as the fact that that double standard exists. a guy can compliment a woman just because he wants to be nice.
Ngl the Last woman had strong Karen vibes about her. I dunno, just her way of speaking and gesturing made me think: ohoh this is gonna go south real fast. Luckily I was wrong.
God some people have no idea how huge it is to get a compliment, mostly guys. We usually receive around 5-10 genuine compliments in our entire life so this is a huge moment for us.
I do this all the time! The way I see it is if I can brighten up someone’s day with something as little as a compliment, why wouldn’t I?
I’ve suffered with menta health issues my whole life. I never want anyone to feel as bad as I do sometimes.
It’s like that post from years ago about a guy thanking the stranger who waved at him, and that he was in his way to Kill himself but the strangers kindness made him pause and live another day.
Being kind cost nothing, but to another person can mean everything
I wish I could give people compliments! My friends and I would almost exclusively talk shit to each other growing up. It was genuinely pretty funny even if you were getting picked on. Then I went to college and met a different group of guys that were really nice, encouraging and thoughtful towards each other. I thought it was pretty cool but I had no choice but to let them know they were acting like pussys!
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think it depends on the way you give a compliment. with the way men have treated women the past decade it’s hard to tell if someone is being a fucking weirdo or just being a nice person, you can’t blame someone for having their guard up.
Thanks for sharing. Made me want to try it, then remembered that I’m a dude and will more than likely just creep people out.
I thought the same thing
And try not to come off sarcastically haha..
Just roll up on two guys and tell them you have never seen two handsome ass best friends until now.
\*awkward stare\*
\*stare back to assert dominance\*
Big same like yahhh no not gunna try that one 🤣❤️
Find some dudes and say nice cock bro
Man we don't know what we did
Family guy?
Complimentary vs sexualisation. That's the key. Something that's left me on cloud 9 randomly from a man was: every woman should have a shirt like that, have a great day... Over a simple button blouse I was wearing. One towards my kid that did the same: omg those shoes are the best things I've ever seen. Complimentary.
This! Two examples from different exchanges I had in the same dress. Both times it was a guy who approached me on the street. 1, bad: random dude says, “that dress looks hot on you, I can see the silhouette of your legs through the fabric”. 2 good: “that orange color looks so dang pretty on you! Have a nice day!”
I got men who don't know the difference trying to fuck with me lol. Not sure. 3. Say nothing (three say nothing)
First guy should have known where to stop, right at the comma. You could still discuss whether you like to be called hot, but it would already be a lot less creepy. Second guy also gets it to just compliment and wish a nice day and move on. So yeah, it's about intentions mainly, and the first guy certainly had creepy intentions.
That is just clothes though. I feel that if you move from what people have to how people are (beautiful, handsome, etc) you can easily get in trouble
If you can't find a shirt cute or shoes, and find the compliment, something other than the physical. You deserve the trouble.
That's not what I said though. Are you just trying to get angry and have an argument?
How am I arguing when I answered your question? Directly To the best of my ability as I will not and cannot speak for all, as you answered my opinion
I really dont understand you. I didn't make any question so I don't know what question did you answer directly. I did not say i cannot find a shirt cute, I said (or meant to say) that the line between complimentary and sexualizing seems to be more between things you have and things you are. Because I agree your examples are complimentary and handsome/beautiful can be easily interpreted as sexualizing You just came across as angry because of saying "You deserve this." I dont know what i deserve or why to be honest
Let's break it down. Would you give the same to my 9yr Old. legit No? Hold it in. Tell me my shirt or hair is cute. Then drop it. Said all is needed. Call me anything based on my PHYSICAL, your a creep.
Physical is not necessarily "nice boobs!" which is obviously creepy, "nice hair/ you have beautiful eyes/ what a pretty smile", are all also physical. These are actually counter examples to my initial opinion, so I guess you can actually come across as complimentary when commenting on physical after, which is the opposite of what i was saying
Bro, just drop it. You can't argue with stupid people
No they are okay. But again, can you say it to a 9yr old? If not. Not cool.
If you cannot say it to a kid, cannot to a random woman. Roll with that. Only thing you can tell me is my body is hot or good. And your a creep. I dressed in comfy. Now I'm not. You did that. Physical isn't a complimentary thing. If you think it is, boy do I have some choice words said at me that'd changed how I dress.
You are really overreacting, i have no idea how you look and I don't care, I have not made any comment directed to you. Im not going to apologise for how you decide to misinterpret me Edit: comment to your physical, I have obviously commented on you comments
Dude, I’m racking my brain trying to untangle her sentences. I have no idea what shes saying either
All of mine have been physically. Never made to me personally but hypothetical. As I learnt, never apologize for what someone says they are. Never. End them for who they are.
In the video all of her compliments were based on physical appearance and not specific to what the people were wearing or something they did to look good.
No they aren't. Be what you are tho. This internet stranger ain't stopping you man. Go be the creep you wanna be, who didn't get it.
Literally nothing she said specified anything other than general appearance. “Handsome ass best friends” “You’re a literal king, you look amazing” “You literally look like an angel” “We we’re looking for parking, but we found two beautiful women” “Are you from GQ? Because I swear you guys are models.” “You look so beautiful today” And because I think these same things coming from a man would be creepy, I am therefore creepy? Get over yourself.
Some random guy saw me in my running tights and said “well aren’t those happy pants” (it was in America he wasn’t referring to my undergarments 🙃) … fecking made my day, week, month and beyond. Every time I wear them now I smile 😁🙃
I mean. You might have nice boobs
So could a 9yr. Point?
Wtf?
give it a try and share your experience.
You’d be surprised how many people can take a compliment specially if it’s not transactional, like you compliment someone and immediately ask for their number or social media. I do it all the time and just keep it moving!
I came to say this.
There are other ways. One time I was checking out at a supermarket and the cashier, a heavyset older woman, was looking really miserable and tired. I made sure to look at her nametag, and when I left, I said “Thanks so much Joanna.” She was overjoyed! She turned to her coworker with a huge smile and put her hand up to her chest. It was a nice feeling.
no i think if you were to say it kindly it wouldn’t come off as creepy?
It only starts to become weird if you’re obviously checking them out from head to toe. Don’t cross the line between kind compliment and flirting then its fine.
mhm and i don’t think the woman in this video was flirting or anything, was just kind compliments :)
I agree with you 100%. But would like to add that part of the delivery includes the social setting, location, and approach. As I've gotten older I've taken those things into consideration
Maybe with women over 30, but most guys won’t put up with that either
Maybe over 40 or after 50
So this is female privilege?
Yes but we earnt that privilege by not being as creepy.
Gold.
I've heard people suggest before that it's less weird of you compliment something they've *chosen*, like their clothes, or their hair cut or something, rather than just their appearance
Yelling at strangers from a car window has probably already put you in creepy category before the content of the words get processed
Genuine compliments don’t creep people out. Just don’t sexually comment on someone (nice ass isn’t a genuine compliment) and you will be fine. Also tone matters. Had a dude tell me he loved my skull shirt (back was huge crocheted skull). Made my whole day. I get so many creeps at the beer and wine store I work at, it was refreshing like this video. (Like the nice ass example I gave earlier or offering to take me out). Or someone who complimented my accent in Spanish (I speak English as my native language but speak in Spanish to a lot of my customers).
Try it on family and friends, it'll still have the right effect.
I’d go with you, as I chick with social anxiety I’d be to scared to go alone. But the smiles were amazing
💯 Definite double standard.
You would be amazed at how one compliment can change a day. I work in Hospitality and I always try and compliment somehow whether it be nails, outfit, hair, shoes or just saying you look amazing. It has taken people from having an awful day to smiles like that.
Thanks for sharing your experience. You are right. compliments do make one smile and happy.
I just love smiles too much negativity in the world.
I always give and encourage others to give compliments for this reason! When I’m walking with friends and one of them says “that girls dress is so pretty” or “I really like his shoes” etc,. I say to them, tell them! Let them know! You never know who needs a little boost of confidence to get them through their day!
Thank you for all that you do and I hope you have a wonderful day/night wherever you are!
Same to you thank you so much
I use to work in hospitality and loved it. I was the same way. It really made their days especially if it didn't start off so good or something was annoying them. A compliment goes a long way sometimes. Never stop we need to uplift each other 🙌🏼
making people's day as you go. awesome!
That was so sweet!
And recording it for clout. Real nice indeed.
that's my feeling too
if he gets clout for this then all good. this is still better content than 99% of stuff out there
“Drive by anytime!”
Loved that
Are you thinking what I am thinking?
Get in the car!!!
That’s the kind of “internet-challenges” we need and not that milk-box shit
Eh? Did I miss a thing?
Just people in the year for our lord COVID trying to find a more interesting and stupid way to murk themselves.
It doesn’t work out the same if you’re a male. It just comes off sleazy
Depends on the delivery. Do you know the difference between "you look beautiful today" and "smile for me sweetheart" ?
I think about this a lot. I often hear "the difference between sweet and creepy is if she thinks you're cute" but I've known men who frequently compliment my clothes/ appearance/ whatever, I know I'm definitely not attracted to them, but they never come off creepy. Even after one of them got attacked with a hammer and had a big terrifying scar. I can't out my finger on it but I think it's a combination of they never stared/ leered, just made normal eye contact and their tone was always light and friendly. They'd also comment on my outfit or makeup or other things I could control, not my actual body. They never likened me to any food items. I'm sure some misunderstandings are inevitable but in general I think some men are being intentionally obtuse with "not understanding" the difference.
There's a certain type of man that thinks it is a gift to compliment you, and you become a bitch if you don't receive it gratefully enough, and they've never considered that maybe you don't want them considering anything about you in the first place
They know the difference, btw… they also know how to load a dishwasher.
True. Yesterday I was walking down the street and a man told me I had nice hair. It was said kindly and I returned the compliment. And this happened literally right after I left the court hearing that sent my stalker to jail. Two different people, two different ways of appreciating (for lack of better word) a woman- one crazy, one kind. I can tell the difference. I’m not going to freak out on a man who compliments me in a kind way.
An older once told me I should smile more and kept waiting looking at me to smile. I walked away. This person saw me one second and had no clue I visited my grandfather who was dying of leukemia while trying to force myself to still look forward to and plan my wedding knowing my grandfather wouldn't be there. No I did not want to smile I wanted to honor how I was feeling without having a meltdown in public. He might have meant it nicely but the stare down while he smiled wasn't...uh it wasn't good.
I usually compliment clothing or something. Makes people feel good
i think a lot of women dont know the difference to be honest. most of what this woman said if a man said would be met with a different reaction. I agree its about intent, but a lot of women dont take that into consideration, it is just a man is commenting on my appearance without my invitation =unwarranted sexual attention and that is the narration that is predominant now, that a man cannot comment on a woman's looks in any way without invitation to do so. which is sad when it is different for women because it is implied that a woman can say these things and they are intended to complement, but a man says them because he is want attention or to make someone feel uncomfortable. in many situations, a man saying you look beautiful today would be classed as sexual harrasment if the woman felt uncomfortable with it regardless of the intention behind the person saying it .
And depends on society in country\\city you are living. Even random male to random male will say "dude you hair looks good" it can be 80% that this person will think that you are gay and resposnce can be "fuck you" or he just will beat your ass or 20% just ignore you. Different town can be with different results.
Depends on if they find you attractive. It has very little to do with delivery.
It's all about the delivery.
Nah. There are things you can say that are harmless and kind. I can't think of any right 🍃 now, but there are.
“Hey bro nice dick outline. Keep your chin held high!”
Finally good people - thank you
I love doing this
These videos make me so happy
it made me happy too!
Yay 🥰
Not hating. But I know you made those guys weeks because guys never get complements nearly as much as women.
Weeks? Bro, I still think back to when Shayna from 4th grade said I smell not disgusting. This shit made their LIVES.
they should do a male edition and we should analyze how different the reactions are
I scare people by simply asking for directions I feel like this would go badly for me
This is the most nauseatingly American video I’ve seen this week
normalise kindness
I kind wanna try it, but as a male I feel like I would give a wrong vibe.
These are the best. Always try to be kind and make regular people smiles; we all need it sometimes
Where I live, most of the people will either ignore you or just shout fuck you.
I always find these a bit odd. Nice, but hard to understand the intention of filming it.
Honestly being kind has huge follow on effects
Yo, this the kinda TikTok challenges we need.
I gave my boss a compliment that her hair looked nice and my other coworkers started talking shit about me lol wth🤷🏽♀️why are ppl so salty when others get compliments?
Annnnnnd i’m crying
Didn’t we have to sit though a training on not to do this
I’d like to see the dude version of this to see how well it comes off.
It's kinda weird to be driving and yelling at people that they look nice and to record them. Why not walk around the mall or something.
makes me happy to know this is happening in my city
I stopped someone today as she walked by to tell her that her earrings were gorgeous. We had a lovely little chat and we both went on our way. Probably never see her again but it was nice 🙂
you are GOLD! nice work
Thanks!! But it’s as much for me as for her in a way. Makes me feel happy too 🙂
Now do it with out the camera rolling.
So cringe
Wow i bet you’re just a lovely human being. Not everyone trying to he a nice person is cringe dude.
Complimenting strangers for views 🥰🥰 now go do this without your phone because you don't need the accreditation for making someone's day
Making this video encourages other people to also do positive things. It shows people how nice it can be to be kind.
Actually, I'm glad she recorded it cause it made my day and inspired me to do the same
This is so wholesome but if two guys said the same things this would be on a whole different subreddit
yeah it’s kinda sad tbh
Just wanted to say…FUCK YA!!!
This is a whole vibe <3
Hmmmmm...... I couldn't take a compliment from a complete stranger.... I'm the asshole that you would see thinking this is some condescending stranger making fun of me, so "🖕"... Idk.... No confidence, low self esteem..... Just how I am
awww! i am sure you are good hearted person.
normalize lying to random ppl in the street
woah! which one you thought was ugly?
I am not saying ugly but she is over exaggerating you should only give ppl genuine compliments otherwise it doesn't mean anything
They are just bitter - reject their bad energy!
As a female, I enjoy heckling male construction workers. They always smile or at least look pleasantly surprised to hear someone scream "shake it big boy" or "fuck yeah spread it" as they drive by
Cat calling is obnoxious no matter who’s doing it. When men do it, they’re considered pigs. When women do it, they’re considered fun.
Yeah it's totally the same energy, I should be ashamed of myself for making all those guys feel threatened and uncomfortable
Called it.
Because she’s joking and the men aren’t
There’s an awful lot of men in the workplace who make inappropriate comments to female coworkers and they’re “joking.” It’s not a valid excuse for them and it’s not a valid excuse for her.
Nah sometimes people get jokes. Have you ever worked construction? I have and we’d laugh our asses off if something like this happened
Yeah I'm not sure how the chuds in this thread don't understand the difference between me making an obvious joke to the group of dudes standing around waiting for their turn to work and a group men saying specific sexually explicit, graphic and threatening shit to a single woman, but fuck these feminists and our double standards lol
They just want to feel oppressed and it’s weird.
It's hard to admit white male privilege exists when they've done so little with it
Good for you. Edit /s
you know this is harassment
Yes, my meta humor joke is totally harassment
Yes it is.
haha we need more people like you
No we don’t
r/Cringetopia
Making people feel good is cringe now? Or is it because it's filmed? Encouraging other people to be kind by visually showing how nice it can be is cringe? I think you need a hug and a break from the Internet.
Yeah I know, right? Compliments that make people happy? Cringe, right?
Vomit
Love this. Thank you for posting, beautiful person
"Drive by anytime!" Me: Say les-
I love this...I try to do this. But I also have to point out, dude on the right in the first part is wearing the same tank top as Klaus in The Umbrella Academy scene where he meets god and talks to his dad....I've been looking for it everywhere. That is all.
Me who normally dislike TikTok : This....is acceptable
A reason to start over new.. And the reason is you....
For once in my life, I really liked a tik tok video so much.
The tiktok videos we all need more!
I loved this so much!
If this was a guy going round telling women they look like models/ are beautiful it would be met with a different attitude. Yeah its annoying to point that out, but not as annoying as the fact that that double standard exists. a guy can compliment a woman just because he wants to be nice.
THE LADY AT THE END 😭😭😭 I would visit her every day
i woke up and saw my phone exploding with notifications. i hope i made many of you smile. thanks you.
I’d love to see an English version of this … “Hi you look great today mate!” “You fucking wot!”
Ngl the Last woman had strong Karen vibes about her. I dunno, just her way of speaking and gesturing made me think: ohoh this is gonna go south real fast. Luckily I was wrong.
If it were a man it’d be creepy. It’s sad but facts.
In Germany we say: FAHR WEITAAAAA AAAAAH
Lmao my reaction would be. Tf did I do? Did I break something?
Yeah but when i do it i get arrested
So cute and very helpfull
God some people have no idea how huge it is to get a compliment, mostly guys. We usually receive around 5-10 genuine compliments in our entire life so this is a huge moment for us.
I’d do that but I’m a hijabi and people aren’t so happy w that
If you pay attention, the average person is so gorgeous. It's amazing. 😊❤️
I do this all the time! The way I see it is if I can brighten up someone’s day with something as little as a compliment, why wouldn’t I? I’ve suffered with menta health issues my whole life. I never want anyone to feel as bad as I do sometimes. It’s like that post from years ago about a guy thanking the stranger who waved at him, and that he was in his way to Kill himself but the strangers kindness made him pause and live another day. Being kind cost nothing, but to another person can mean everything
I love these- thanks!
This was refreshing
This makes me so happy every time! This videos are awesome lol 😂
the world could use a little more of stuff like this. this is the kind of thing that can completely change someones day for the better.
I loveed “the drive by anytime” aww
Life is a boomerang 🪃
I wish I could give people compliments! My friends and I would almost exclusively talk shit to each other growing up. It was genuinely pretty funny even if you were getting picked on. Then I went to college and met a different group of guys that were really nice, encouraging and thoughtful towards each other. I thought it was pretty cool but I had no choice but to let them know they were acting like pussys!
I’m sorry, the “literal king” one made me want to kill myself 😬
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Plot twist, when they heard to drive by anytime they thought it meant to cause a drive by shooting anytime
This wouldn’t work if a guy did it
We need more of this, just be careful. A lot of these snowflakes get offended if you pay them a compliment
think it depends on the way you give a compliment. with the way men have treated women the past decade it’s hard to tell if someone is being a fucking weirdo or just being a nice person, you can’t blame someone for having their guard up.
This is cringe tbh
Andwhen guy says all this he is sexually harasing :/
Bro, that last lady gives me karen vibes
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And if a man said any of this he would be arrested and called a pig